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Embarking on the journey of exploring adult toys can be exciting, but knowing where to start is key to a positive experience. From choosing the perfect product to maintaining it for years to come, here’s your essential guide.
With a vast array of options available, selecting your first (or next) toy can feel overwhelming. Focusing on a few key factors will help you find the ideal match for your desires.
1. Understand Material Matters
The material of your toy is the most critical factor for both safety and sensation. Prioritize non-porous materials, as they are hygienic, easy to clean, and body-safe.
Top-Tier Materials: Medical-grade silicone, ABS plastic, stainless steel, and tempered glass are all excellent, non-porous choices. They are hypoallergenic and don’t harbor bacteria.
Materials to Avoid: Be wary of porous materials like jelly, rubber, or PVC. These can degrade over time, harbor bacteria and mold even after cleaning, and often contain phthalates—chemicals that can cause irritation.
2. Define Your Intention
What kind of experience are you looking for? Your goal will significantly narrow down your choices.
Solo Exploration: Perfect for self-discovery. Consider beginner-friendly wands for broad external stimulation or small, simple vibrators.
Partnered Play: Look for toys designed for couples, such as vibrating rings or wearable vibrators that can be enjoyed by both partners during intimacy.
Internal vs. External: Do you prefer clitoral stimulation, vaginal penetration, anal play, or a combination? Each has toys specifically designed for safety and maximum pleasure.
3. Consider Features and Complexity
Start simple. A toy with one simple vibration setting is often better for beginners than a device with 10 patterns and multiple motors. Consider noise level if you have roommates or value discretion. Also, decide between rechargeable toys (more eco-friendly and powerful) and battery-operated ones (convenient for travel).
Once you’ve chosen your toy, using it correctly ensures a safe and enjoyable experience every time.
Lubrication is Non-Negotiable
Using lubricant reduces friction, increases comfort, and heightens sensation. Always use a lubricant that is compatible with your toy’s material.
Water-Based Lubricant: The universal choice. It’s safe to use with all toy materials, including silicone. It may require reapplication.
Silicone-Based Lubricant: Longer-lasting and silkier. However, never use it with silicone toys, as it can break down the material.
Oil-Based Lubricant: Very long-lasting, but can degrade latex condoms and certain toy materials. Best used with glass or metal toys.
Start Low and Go Slow
Especially when trying a new toy, begin with the lowest setting to gauge your sensitivity. Gently explore what feels good without rushing. Communication with a partner is crucial—check in and ensure everyone is comfortable.
Use Toys for Their Intended Purpose
Design is everything. Only use toys with a flared base and a safety stopper for anal play to prevent the risk of loss. Follow the manufacturer’s guidelines for use, especially for electronic toys. Never use a toy that is damaged or has a frayed wire.
Clean It First!
Your brand-new toy may look clean, but it could have dust, manufacturing residues, or packaging particles on it. Always wash your toy thoroughly before its very first use.
Proper cleaning is the cornerstone of sexual health and extends the life of your investment.
Step 1: Identify the Material and Electronics
Your cleaning method depends entirely on whether your toy is waterproof and what it’s made of.
Non-porous & Non-electric (silicone, glass, steel): These can be cleaned most thoroughly.
Porous (jelly, PVC): These require extra care and may need to be covered with a condom for easier cleaning.
Electric/Waterproof: Can be washed, but check the IP rating to see if it can be submerged.
Electric/Non-waterproof: Only the surface can be wiped clean.
Step 2: Choose Your Cleaning Method
Basic Clean (after every use): Use a mild, unscented antibacterial soap and warm water. For non-porous toys, scrub them thoroughly, rinse off all soap residue, and pat dry with a clean towel.
Deep Clean/Sanitization (occasionally or after anal use): Non-porous, non-electric toys can be sanitized by boiling in water for 5-7 minutes or by wiping them down with a 10% bleach solution (rinse thoroughly afterward!). Many sex toy brands also offer specialized toy cleaners.
Step 3: Dry and Store Properly
Ensure your toy is completely dry before storing it to prevent mildew. Store it in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight, which can degrade materials. Ideally, keep each toy in its own breathable cotton bag or a separate container to prevent materials from reacting with each other (e.g., silicone toys touching can cause surface damage).
By taking the time to choose wisely, prioritize safety, and maintain your toys properly, you can ensure every experience is both pleasurable and secure. Happy exploring!